Negative.
Making eye contact constitutes flirting, and flirting translates to “I’m interested in you. Your point is to get close to him (i.e. get proximity) without him knowing so that you can ask your question. Getting “accidental” proximity would be impossible if you had made eye contact with your target before-hand. He would know for sure that you didn’t just “happen” to slide into the bar to get your drink right next to him. Whereas, if no eye contact has been made before you get proximity and deliver your opener, there is no tip off to him at all that you are interested in him. He may have noticed you and tried to make eye contact with you before this point, but you will have been strong and not let on that you thought he was your kind of Hot Guy.
Caveat: checking him out when you are sure he’s not looking to make sure he’s cute is more than fine.
Yours in sly peeking,
S
Making eye contact constitutes flirting, and flirting translates to “I’m interested in you. Your point is to get close to him (i.e. get proximity) without him knowing so that you can ask your question. Getting “accidental” proximity would be impossible if you had made eye contact with your target before-hand. He would know for sure that you didn’t just “happen” to slide into the bar to get your drink right next to him. Whereas, if no eye contact has been made before you get proximity and deliver your opener, there is no tip off to him at all that you are interested in him. He may have noticed you and tried to make eye contact with you before this point, but you will have been strong and not let on that you thought he was your kind of Hot Guy.
Caveat: checking him out when you are sure he’s not looking to make sure he’s cute is more than fine.
Yours in sly peeking,
S
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